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Balancing the professional and personal on social media

Posted by Abby Nafziger at Nov 01, 2011 04:15 PM |

We all know that nothing is truly private anymore, and social media profiles can be career boosters or killers. One in five employers use social media sites to research job candidates. It's not always easy to figure out how, when and what to share socially. Do you risk losing professional credibility if you tweet about meeting with friends at a bar for happy hour, or does that help provide a human connection point? When does the personal side of social media overwhelm the professional, or vice versa?

We all know that nothing is truly private anymore, and social media profiles can be career boosters or killers. As this Mashable Infographic depicts, 1 in 5 employers use social media sites to research job candidates. It's not always easy to figure out how, when, and what to share socially. Having a well-crafted and professionally applicable Twitter account can be a boon as you look to find a new job, make contacts in a new field, or educate yourself about various topics. However Twitter, Facebook, and other sites might also be the way you connect and communicate with friends on a personal level. How does one find the right balance between snarky updates about the most recent episode of “Project Runway” as opposed to great resource links, relevant news, and tips/tricks? Do you risk losing professional credibility if you tweet about meeting with friends at a bar for happy hour, or does that help provide a human connection point? When does the personal side of social media overwhelm the professional, or vice versa?

A little backstory here: I am of the Millennial generation, and yes, I joined Facebook back in the heady days of 2005, when it was still rolling out across college campuses. However, I also have a profound respect for privacy and achieving balance between the different spheres of my life. I have been using Twitter semi-anonymously (as in I use only a portion of my full name) for a little over 3 years; during that time, I have tweeted my way through grad school, a job search, and one cross-country move. Now serving as an AmeriCorps VISTA at NPower, I find my interests and interactions on Twitter becoming more professional. I've begun making connections with other nonprofit tech leaders and want to continue to learn about my new field through the wonders of Twitter. I am learning about the many ways that good use of social media can be a boon for individuals at all career levels.

So how does one go about achieving this balance between your personal connections and your professional networking? Here are three tips that help me as I navigate the complex world of social media and professional networking.

1. Decide what the purpose of each of your social network channels are and stick to that purpose. I use Facebook to connect with friends, relatives and random people from my past. I use Flickr to share photos with friends and family and serve as an online back-up. I use LinkedIn to showcase my resume and discover new networking connections. I blog, semi-anonymously, to keep up with friends/family and make fun connections with people from around the world. I tweet to connect with friends and extend my professional network. And I use Google+ to keep in touch with my fellow HandsOn Tech VISTAs serving in 7 different cities. While this is a somewhat complicated system, it helps me decide on privacy settings and content for each network, while allowing me to balance the professional and personal.

2. Be nice. No matter what your privacy settings are, it's always a good idea to assume that anyone and possibly everyone will read what you write/share/tweet/etc. Privacy settings can change (I am looking at you, Facebook), friendships evolve, and the gal who used to be your wine-tasting buddy could one day be your co-worker, so don’t assume anything online is truly private or secure. In other words, keep things polite and your rants off the personal level.

3. Equally important - be genuine. If a big part of who you are is your obsession with tasting a beer from every microbrewery in Seattle, or your undying love for everything ever written by Joss Whedon, don’t hide who you are online. Remember - if an employer doesn’t want to hire you because you drink more than seven cups of coffee a day, you probably wouldn’t want to work for them anyway. And, more importantly, being genuine about your interests and activities increases the chance of making those real connections with people who might help find your next job, join your next happy hour, or pass on a link to the best blog post you have ever read.

Thanks to Beth Kanter for her great blog post on The Tension Between Publicness and Privacy which helped inspire this post.

- Abby Nafziger
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Public vs Private Personas

Posted by Matthew Smith at Nov 02, 2011 02:10 PM
Great post! You're not alone in your caution...although my one critique would be that if you're not using your full/real name, you lose your claim to being genuine. It;s not just a generational thing; the days of drawn distinction between our public and private lives are numbered.

Public vs Private Personas

Posted by Abby at Nov 02, 2011 02:26 PM
Thanks Matt! I think you have a really good point. Seeing as I have decided to use Twitter as a more professional account, it makes sense to use my full name. I think using abbynaf was a bit of my attempt to have the best of both worlds, but I think you are correct that the distinction between public and private are diminishing. Thanks again for your feedback!
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